Healthy
Relationship Resources for Teens, Singles, and Parents of Teens
May is Teen Pregnancy Prevention month under development.
The Richmond
City Health District, Adolescent Health Program and the Richmond
Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy would like to announce the Teen
Pregnancy Prevention Seminar. Please visit the link below to learn
more about this event. Registration closes May 3, 2010. If
interested, we encourage you to apply early and we look forward to
our continued work together to address this important issue.
http://teenpregnancyseminar.eventbrite.com/
For Teens:
Teen Pregnancy
Prevention information from First Things First
View a short
video clip on YouTube with comments from Relationship Smarts
participants and Church Hill Academy school staff (serving at risk
youth).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ipY7OldtSwU
In 2008, the teenage pregnancy rate in Richmond City was
68.2 (for every thousand females 10 - 19 years; there were 68.2
pregnancies). There were 916 pregnancies to females <age
10-19. Currently Richmond has the third highest teen pregnancy
rate in the Commonwealth.
Teen Pregnancy Prevention Month is an excellent time
to talk with youth and adults about this issue. Please encourage
the teens to visit the link below and take a brief online quiz that
will help them think about potentially risk-taking situations…
before they find themselves in one.
Created by the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and
Unplanned Pregnancy, the goal of the quiz is to help teens get smart
and serious about risks, so they can avoid them before they find
themselves trapped “in the moment.” The quiz describes real
situations, and the teens can choose the answer closest to what they
think they would do. Their answers are discussed and scored
regarding the potential risks. The quiz is short and confidential;
the National Campaign website that hosts the quiz includes a lot of
good information that encourages young people to avoid early,
unplanned pregnancies.www.isittherighttime.com
http://www.stayteen.org/quiz/
One
in ten teens report experiencing physical dating abuse each year.
About one in four teens reports verbal, physical, emotional or
sexual abuse each year. In 2007 475 youth in Virginia sought
services for TDV from local domestic violence agencies in Virginia.
Richmond City police data reports 31 incidents of teen on teen
Aggravated Assault- Domestic and Rape in 2009. Agencies that deal
with youth believe this is significantly under-reported.
First Things First is on the
Community Advisory Board for the Richmond Campaign to Prevent Teen
Pregnancy and provides rese4arch proven national programs for
teen healthy relationships and dating skills. For more
information about the campaign contact Gale Grant RHD at
804-205-3903 or
www.richmondcampaign.org

Community Forum: Teen Healthy
Relationships
Teen Healthy Relationships and
Choose Respect Dating Violence Prevention Forum with Richmond City
Council Members Cynthia Newbille and Ellen Robertson, Police Chief
Norwood and other leaders at Peter Paul Development Center in Church
Hill
Link for small pdf file with additional
photos of Forum and youth classes.
We are grateful to
Altria Companies
Employee Community Fund and to Third Presbyterian
Church for their generous support of programming for at-risk
youth.
Resources & Links for teens, singles, parents, educators and
congregations below.
Annual Girls are Talking event in partnership with
Friends Association Saturday, August 7, 2010 8:00 AM- 5:00 PM
VA Home for Boys & Girls 8716 West Broad Street, Richmond, VA.
Kamala Benjamin (804)644-2357
kbenjamin@friendsassn.org.
Links
for Educators & Congregations:

2009 Relationship Smarts class at Peter & Paul Development
Center in Church Hill with instructors: Tania Peterson and LeMar
Bowers.

Friends Association for
Children
Church Hill Academy

Church Hill Academy
Comments:
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I learned how to
have healthy dating relationships.
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This helped me know
what is safe and unsafe in dating.
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I really appreciated
the instructors: Tania and LeMar... they were awesome
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School Director: This
was a GREAT program for our students. The instructors and program
were really engaging. We need more of this in our community; Thank
you First Things First.
View a short
video clip on YouTube with comments from Relationship Smarts
participants and Church Hill Academy school staff (serving at risk
youth).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ipY7OldtSwU
Programs and
Resources:
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"Relationship Smarts" for
teens is a national research based program available from
First Things First which is produced by dibble fund below.
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http://www.thenationalcampaign.org/
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www.Stayteen.org
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Teen Dating
Violence Facts PDF from the ABA
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National dating abuse fact sheet from CDC
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www.Dibblefund.org
"Love U 2" and "Connections" curriculums for
teen healthy relationships. These are some of the best materials
aimed at high schools we have reviewed and look at helping teens
with relationships in a realistic, informed
way. Visit our FTF Richmond office to review a
sample. "Love
is in the Air" article on paying attention to
romantic lives of teens (Link Here)
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A & M Partnership (Abstinence
and Marriage): Restoring the Dream for America's youth.
Curriculum, teacher training and resources for teachers (Aspire)
and congregations (Excel) for promoting abstinence and delaying
sexual activity. http://www.ampartnership.org/
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Moms and Dads for Education to stop teen dating violence:
http://www.loveisnotabuse.com/made/ Love is Not Abuse Video
clips:
Link:
https://corp.filesanywhere.com/liz/fs/v.aspx?v=89726b8d5a5fb17b6baa
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www.4parents.gov
gives parents the support and information they need to help
their children make the healthiest choices.
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July 22-25, 2008 Abstinence
Clearinghouse Conference at the Rosen Shingle Creek Resort
in Orlando, FL www.abstinenceconference.com.
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www.ForYouIWill.com
We partner with "For You I Will" a local outreach to
assist youth & young adults understand the purpose of
forming healthy relationships, marriage and family and to have a
hope for the future. This is an intense 8 week training program
followed by a "mock wedding"
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http://www.waittraining.com
WAIT (why am I tempted) Training
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http://www.waittraining.com/links.asp
other links
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http://www.abstinencepartners.net/
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Abstinence Clearinghouse Conference,
visit www.abstinenceconference.com.
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www.medinstitute.org/products
Medical Institute Products
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By
The Numbers... costs of teen pregnancies.
http://www.teenpregnancy.org/costs/
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**NEW****
Brookings
Institution reports that increasing marriage rates and reducing
divorce is the second most influential factor to reduce poverty
second only to "Full Time Work" and in front of
increasing education! Testimony of Senior Fellow:
Isabel Sawhill to Ways & Means Committee April 26, 2007.
Suggests funding of programs for Pre-Marital Skills Education
and healthy Relationship Skills for Teens like the Relationship
Smarts program part of Love U-2 Curriculum which we use at FTF
for teens. Culture Counts: "Thus,
any strategy to reduce the number of single parent families
should include a component aimed at changing broad cultural
attitudes. Many younger people, teens especially, have not
fully absorbed the message about normative ordering of events
that is critical to achieving life's goals: finish high school,
or better still, get a college degree, wait until your twenties
to marry, and do not have children until after you marry and at
least one parent is stably employed".
Download pdf report from Brookings:
http://www3.brookings.edu/views/testimony/sawhill/20070426.pdf
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ESSENTIAL
DISCIPLINES™ FOR TEENS, a unique
new curriculum by Stephen Judah, Ph.D. that
equips young people with the practical relationship skills they
need for success in private life AND the
workplace. avaailable from Dibble Fund
- he Youth Connection
From IYD is now available for a free download at:
http://www.youthdevelopment.org/yconnections.htm
A study performed
at a public university indicated that 72% of the sexually active
students regretted a decision to engage in sexual activity at
least once, citing the following reasons: it was "inconsistent
with their morals" (37%); alcohol influenced their sexual
decision making (32%); or "they did not want the same thing as
their partner" (28%). The only significant difference between
male and female participants was that females more frequently
reported regret as a result of "feeling pressured" by their
partner.
Source: Oswalt SB, Cameron CA, Koob JJ. Sexual regret in college
students. Arch Sex Behav 2005;34(6):663-9.
These programs/information have
received support from the Dominion foundation, Parker
Foundation, Equity Concepts, Ukrop's Supermarkets, First Market
Bank, SunTrust, Trinity United Methodist Church, Third and St
Giles Presbyterian Church, First Baptist Endowement, Episcopal
Diocese of Va, Catholic Diocese of Richmond Respect Life, First
Shiloh Baptist Church, and other businesses, congregations, and
individuals.
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